Leave Negative Thinking Behind

Leave negative thinking behind

Negative behaviour will lead nowhere. Positive attitude on the hand can be infectious that’s why it’s important to surround yourself with positive people.
But what happens when you find yourself in a room with negative people? How do you stay focused and remain positive and not be drawn into negative mindset.
It helps if you have clarity and direction. Put Simply, it's knowing what you want, why you’re there and the impact you want to have on others.
Maintaining your stance and looking at the bigger picture will help you overcome the influence of negative people.
We all have challenges that can impact our perception of life and work. Managing our emotions properly without bias will lead to positive outcome.
Something to be aware of in a situation like that is to reflect on the fact that we’re all entitled to our own opinions. We all have a right of expression without putting others down. We can choose to respond or react accordingly because we should always be in control of our actions in any situation.  
Being in control of what you want and choose to happen will enable you overcome negative behaviour from others and ensue you make it through with loosing the plot.  Keep you eye on the ball, find people who value your input, connect with your purpose and share you success with others.
This is how you can overcome negative people and remain positive whatever your situation. Want to learn how to stay positive, let's start with a chat

How to communicate with confidence

How to communicate with confidence


Communicating in various languages can be complex and how we interpret what we hear differs with each person.

It’s even more complex when we are of different nationalities and background. Something said can be interpreted and taken out of context.

So how do we even begin to manage communication that will foster a conducive working environment? I will share a simple tip.

By simple asking for clarification before you jump to conclusion. How many crises have started due to misconception or misrepresentation.

Think about it…….......... When was the last time you jumped to conclusion based on something someone said. What were the outcome for the parties involved?

If we want to communicate effectively, and create a conducive working environment, we have to be confident to ask for clarification when things are a bit muddled up. It is better to ask than to assume.

So the next time you hear somebody say something that you feel is not quite right, have the courage and confidence to ask them to “Please explain”

Here’s how to confidently ask for clarification:

  • Contact the person directly and let them know that you did not understand what was said.
  • Ask for clarification so you avoid mis-interpreting their comment
  • Share how that made you feel because of the way you interpreted what was said
  • Ask if you were right to assume that or were you wrong to assume that
  • Express how best  and to communicate with you, verbal or written, in person or virtual

It takes confidence to admit we don't know what we don't know. But the first step to knowing is to admit we don’t know.

When we take these steps, we start to make the effort to improve our communication confidently.

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Actions that will help you be good at what you do

When you feel fear, it stops you from doing.

How do you overcome that fear to move closer to making improved outcomes with confidence? For most of us, it is something that challenges us and keep us from starting.

One way to overcomeBy ruling out self-doubt and focusing on the positive outcome that will happen once the actions are implemented.

“Have no fear of perfection, you’ll never reach it anyway” Salvador Dali

Focusing on why you should rather that what if you fail, is the key to crushing self doubt and taking on the challenge that will improve self confidence.

What is the one thing you’d like to do this week but have doubts about making a start?

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